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Stepping Towards The Goal

Choose your goal, whatever you want, then think about what do you need to have or be or change in order to get what you want. What is the step before or requirement to getting your goal, and the step before that, etc. Personally, I want to be enlightened. To d...

Obstacle To Motivation

Why people cannot get motivated or why people cannot find anything to do is a common question. I think one reason for some people is because they actually do not want to have anything they love and enjoy to do that they can become attached to. The avoidance of...

Why Bother

I have written often about motivation, and having talked to many people, especially young people, who have so many ideas, but they never actually do anything. They are called ADD or lazy or not focused. I have found the ultimate reason is the attitude of; 'Why...

How To Regain Motivation

You lose motivation when you feel hopeless because nothing is working and you think you have tried everything, or you will never meet the right partner. But this is an arrogant attitude that implies you already know everything or every one of the 7 billion pe...

The Mind Sponge

The mistake people make when going to workshops and courses is that they think they can learn something, but normally people find that they forget what they learnt very quickly. The problem is in the analogy of being a sponge to water. The water is information...