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Energy Of Social Contact

We all know that we like friends and companionship etc, but rarely does anyone question WHY we like or need certain things. We are, a scientifically accepted fact, an electro chemical organism. Which means we are made up physically of a bunch of chemicals whic...

Obstacle To Motivation

Why people cannot get motivated or why people cannot find anything to do is a common question. I think one reason for some people is because they actually do not want to have anything they love and enjoy to do that they can become attached to. The avoidance of...

Why Bother

I have written often about motivation, and having talked to many people, especially young people, who have so many ideas, but they never actually do anything. They are called ADD or lazy or not focused. I have found the ultimate reason is the attitude of; 'Why...

How To Regain Motivation

You lose motivation when you feel hopeless because nothing is working and you think you have tried everything, or you will never meet the right partner. But this is an arrogant attitude that implies you already know everything or every one of the 7 billion pe...

The Mind Sponge

The mistake people make when going to workshops and courses is that they think they can learn something, but normally people find that they forget what they learnt very quickly. The problem is in the analogy of being a sponge to water. The water is information...

I Am Me, But I Am Not Me

ThisĀ  is the secret to balancing the never ending pursuit of self-improvement without having low-self esteem, self-hatred and negative emotions. Objectively speaking, the human being is quite frankly not something to be proud of. our body is very delicate and...

The Power Of Faith

Faith is the secret ingredient, that magic key that gives us the power to accomplish all things. Faith gives us the power to do the things we think are impossible or would kill us yet faith gives us the strength to do those things and survive and succeed and p...

How To Find The Perfect Partner

The little idiosyncrasies and things that bother you about your partner is actually a fixed opinion and ego centred way you want it done, wanting it your way. Letting those things go and accepting everyone, with their little issues, makes you a better person a...

The Human Heart Cannot Be Empty

Our heart must have something to love or care about, that is just part of being human. If we do not have anyone to love, we will look for someone or something, a pet or good cause, so there is something for our heart to feed on. This is the cause and danger of...